Hi Keith yes if it is 3 phase 20amps per phase then you size the cable as you would per phase.
In all honesty mate unless you are going to be working with some pretty hefty cables then basic rule of thumb is neutral the same size as phase.
It is quite an art to design a system where you have to be completely sure that if selecting a smaller neutral there is no chance of that installation every getting so out of balance that a smaller neutral is deemed acceptable. If you do go down the round of selecting a smaller size and the system starts to become out of balance then you can have real problems.
I do have some old college papers on this and If I can find them I'll post, but as I said for most designs unless your talking about very large cables I would design the neutral the same size as the phase.