Hi drilltoaster, I've had a good look into the whole 'DNO forbids exporting PME earth' thing, and it would appear to be a myth. I can find no evidence that any DNO outright forbids it, and neither can anyone else when challenged.
For western power, the best information I can find comes from their website, click on 'Can you provide an earthing terminal'
Western Power Distribution is the electricity distribution network operator for the Midlands, South Wales and the South West. You can contact us 24 hours a day, 7 days a week, 365 day a year.
www.westernpower.co.uk
In short, if everything meets BS7671 and Engineering Recommendation G12 then you're good to go.