Good points Eng. People do live in cloud cuckoo land. I've worked in asbestos production plants, so know what I'm talking about. Old fella, and loads of mates, worked in them for donkeys years. It's all about understanding the dangers, not being taken in by scaremongering.
Onions, I'm sorry about your friends but we have to get things into perspective.
When people are breathing in the deadly dust is the time to worry. Read about kids playing in the streets at the side of factories with dust filling the air.
Put some rubber gloves on, if need be, and plastic bag the things, ready for disposal.