Right-oh chaps. Sorry for the delay in coming back on this one. Various projects have died a death and been replaced by others but we currently have a 99kW system on the boil. Here's where we're at in relation to G59/DNO stuff:
Once I'd come up with a system design and was able to put some numbers to the potential output to the grid I downloaded the G59 application form from the DNO website (Central Networks in my case although I understand each DNO uses the same form).
The form is in two parts and for a typical PV project, only part one needs to be completed. This is straightforward: address and grid ref. of the installation, required point of grid connection, max. power/current output etc. Just basic stuff.
The form is emailed back to the DNO so that they can have a look at what you intend to do and work out whether or not their network can handle it. If it can, all well and good - off you go and install your system. If not, the DNO will provide you with a price for any network reinforcements required. There is no 'yes' or 'no' from the DNO about whether or not you can fit your system, it is a case of 'yes' but you may need to pay this much extra to reinforce the grid.
There are two options when sending your application in - a quick response (approx. 1 week) where you are provided with a rough estimate of any grid reinforcements required, to be confirmed at a later date (handy if your project is at preliminary assessment stage), or a more considered response where you are provided with an accurate costing for any work required - this takes around 6 weeks to come back. This is the option I went for and during the process I was contacted and asked for a layout plan of the installation (I sent back a googlemaps view with the location of the arrays and grid connection point marked on). An engineer contacted me last week to tell me that it looked like our system would be OK with no network upgrades required and official notification should be with me next week. This will also include a quote for the DNO to witness tests to the G59 relay at the system commissioning stage.
Costs incurred to date: zero
So, it looks like the extra costs incurred on a G59 project amount to (as stated in above posts), the G59 relay and associated equipment, someone to test the G59 equipment and the DNO to come out and witness that test.