FB - on my prices, with 3% inflation and 5% fuel inflation we're looking at less than ten years payback time, but still losing out to cheap tat. people need to stop looking at renewables as a way to make money, and instead as a responsible thing to do and a cost effective way to inflation proof their fuel bills, after all, over 30% rises in fuel bills since 2010 is quite a lot. Is there any ohter type of home improvement people actually expect to make money from? No. The trouble is, the level of tariffs have produce a culture of greed and pocket filling, not just from some installers, but also from the public at large. There is no justifiable reason why PV should be regarded as a financial investment. If you can make a bit from it, great, but that really shouldn't be the main deciding factor.
Home automation of the type your talking about will always be expensive, because it will require a complete rewire of the house. I amn working on one at the moment. Every room has it's own lighting circuit, sockets are divided up so, for example, the fridge is on it's own circuit, the washer on another. It's only a three bedroom house but even then it requires over 40ways on the distribution board and he wanted everyone with it's own RCBO, thats over £800 just on RCBOs! Usually this stuff goes in footballers houses, but he knows the guy that does the systems so is getting it on the cheap, while I sort out the electrics. Even so, it's going to be a hellish expensive rewire!!!
The best retro fit system I have seen is this
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it has can be controlled from a hand controller or smart phone. One of the things I liked about it is it just replaces standard faceplates, so you can fit as many or as few as you like and, if in years to come you can't get the parts or it's obsolete because it just replaced standard fitments you can just swap it back again.