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Paul.M
Couple of years ago I was throwing in a new display lighting circuit for a Victorian shopping arcade for the walkway and shop fronts. Full on PPE, tower scaffold, hard hat, signs & barriers the full works when a woman walks past and says my name.
"Paul, I have'nt seen you for years (since a teenager). What are you doing now?"
"I'm an Electrician."
Her reply still reply still makes me cringe.
"Ho, just an electrician?" !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I had to bite my tongue at this stage, she really rattled me with that 4 word sentence. (Paul, count to ten and smile so not to offend her:devil: ).
In my head I thought about her and her husband + family which I knew very well back then and nothing has changed since. Without sounding elitist or putting anybody down for what they work as for a living, all I had in my head was what she and her husband does to pay the bills. She is a full time cleaner (nothing wrong with that, my mum did a part time cleaning job for over 20+ years after her full time job). Her husband has worked in the same timber yard for over 30 years and only getting a quid above min wage and he is the simpleton that will do anything and everything for the bosses although he has not had a pay rise for 4 years?
"JUST AN ELECTRICIAN" is the worst one I've had due to the background. What did she expect of me to become when she knew me as a teenager? A doctor or something? We all got brought up in the same area and only age separates us, not many people from that estate make anything of their lives but to say "just an electrician" was a blow under the belt.
"Paul, I have'nt seen you for years (since a teenager). What are you doing now?"
"I'm an Electrician."
Her reply still reply still makes me cringe.
"Ho, just an electrician?" !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I had to bite my tongue at this stage, she really rattled me with that 4 word sentence. (Paul, count to ten and smile so not to offend her:devil: ).
In my head I thought about her and her husband + family which I knew very well back then and nothing has changed since. Without sounding elitist or putting anybody down for what they work as for a living, all I had in my head was what she and her husband does to pay the bills. She is a full time cleaner (nothing wrong with that, my mum did a part time cleaning job for over 20+ years after her full time job). Her husband has worked in the same timber yard for over 30 years and only getting a quid above min wage and he is the simpleton that will do anything and everything for the bosses although he has not had a pay rise for 4 years?
"JUST AN ELECTRICIAN" is the worst one I've had due to the background. What did she expect of me to become when she knew me as a teenager? A doctor or something? We all got brought up in the same area and only age separates us, not many people from that estate make anything of their lives but to say "just an electrician" was a blow under the belt.